If it has your name on it, don’t just toss it… shred it!
Learning how to avoid becoming a victim of a robbery or physical attack is very important. It can happen in your home, out on the street or when you’re traveling.
Handling documents
If a document has your name, address or an account number on it, shred it. Don’t just toss it in the trash. Identity theft begins with these valuable pieces of information. Also shred any junk mail that includes an application for credit in your name.
Handling travel
When visiting entertainment districts and other tourist spots, dress down. Flashy clothes and jewelry attract attention from street predators.
Park in an attended garage. When returning to your car, have the keys ready and in hand. Digging for keys at the door makes you a still target. Look inside the car at the back seat and floor before getting in.
Keep your head on a swivel. Watch your surroundings. Notice people. Make brief eye contact without staring. Look confident and walk with purpose. If you need directions, ask a store clerk or restaurant worker. Stay in well-lit areas.
Don’t flash money even when inside a store. Some robbers linger in stores to spot victims carrying lots of cash.
Use public transportation wisely. On buses, sit in the front near the driver but not too near the door. Ask the driver, not other passengers, for directions. On trains, choose a car with other passengers rather than an empty car.
Handling encounters
When answering the door, do not open it for someone you don’t know. Consider installing a telescopic peephole that lets you stand back from the door yet clearly see the caller.
Don’t consider a uniform proof of identity. It is a simple matter to find wardrobe resembling a utility company worker, overnight delivery driver or even police officer.
Street predators favor those who appear oblivious to their surroundings or are helpless. Walk with your head up and look around. Never walk and text or talk on the phone. Some think the phone signals a way to quickly call for help, but it really labels you as distracted and vulnerable.
Don’t have the look of a victim. Let your walk project confidence through organized movement and flowing motion.
Handling awareness
Vary your travel pattern. Come and go at different times. Change routes when taking walks or running errands. Bad guys casing your home will look for predictable times you won’t be there.
Look for patterns in your surroundings. Is that a different car parked on the street? Are those guys the regulars who always hang out on that corner? How long has that person been behind you? If you cross the street, do they follow? Get into a busy public place like a coffee shop or eatery. If they stop too, consider calling the police. The worst thing to do is continue walking until you are in a less populated area.
Handling fraud
You can say no immediately to any telephone sales pitch or hang up at any time. That is not being rude, it is protecting yourself.
Never give bank account or credit card numbers to people you did not call. Do not share it online unless you started the exchange.
Do not do business with repair people who come to the door unsolicited. Always get referrals from family, friends and neighbors who have had repairs done. Never pay for the whole job in advance.
When shopping online, use only trusted merchants. Keep your computer virus protection software current and consider installing a firewall to prevent unsolicited contact.

A few years ago, my wife and I were going through the hell of purchasing a house. During this, we were stopped suddenly by a report that we had been turned into collections for a bill not paid to a cell phone company who had sold us more than $3,000 worth of equipment. The crazy part was, we had never done business with that company! We began a long and arduous process of trying to find out what the heck! Needless to say, the purchase of our home was put on hold while we dug into “Who committed fraud against us?!”
Ultimately we found out that a male had gotten ahold of my wife’s social and name and that was apparently that was all he needed! My wife frequently goes by the nickname of Teri. Well, a former boyfriend of my daughter had gotten my wife’s name and social, and obtained a driver’s license with her name spelled Terry and ID’d it as a male with his picture (not too brilliant I know) and he had just changed Teri to Terry. Now why some brilliant fool didn’t catch that I’ll never know, but all they did was add that spelling to my wife’s ID as an AKA. anyway, it took us 3½ months to clear it. Thankfully, it took all.ost 5 months that to close on the house, as it was a foreclosure and they take forever.
When parking in garages or lots, do not use your cars remote unlock until you are right at your car. Using it too far away alerts anyone that you are coming.
Received a notice from a collection agency retained by the tax division of a mid-western state: nearly 4K in unpaid taxes and fees. Age and info matched me and my wife! Never lived or traveled there – didn’t believe me. Filed a report with the Federal Trade Comm. and sent copies…attempts to collect ceased. SgN
ALSO HAD A TAX RETURN REFUSED FOR CLAMING THAT MY SON WAS IN FACT MY SON….TOOK 9 MONTHS TO CONVINCE THEM THAT IN FACT MY SON WAS MY SON, EVEN THOU I GAVE THEM BIRTH CERT. AND SCHOOL PAPERS AND CHRISTENING DOCUMENTS FROM PREIST AND WITNESSES MY SON WAS 5 YRS OLD AND WAS ON ALL FORMER TAX FORMS………
I had a fraud on my tax return last year….someone in the south east A STATE I HAVE NEVER BEEN IN AT ALL.. seems he sent in a tax return in my name . name spelled wrong, no street address. and no other from of Id. and IRS sent him a check…when I and my wife sent in our return to the IRS.. we were told that we might be prosecuted for fraud……needless to say it took many months to get the IRS to get their head out of their collective asses and accept our tax return that we filed…..who would be dumb enough to send a check to someone who can not spell, and has no address….THE IRS WILL
I had someone tag me on my “Facebook” account and caused me to be banned from my account. I have since tried to set it square with them and was told to set up a new account. When the new account was active, I realized that none of my “Facebook” friends knew where to find me, under a new name, so I contacted them all and told them where to find me. One of my “friends” reported me as an attempt at hijacking an account and I was instantly banned again. After weeks of trying to work with them, I realized that it was a hopeless cause and had my name and old accounts (both of them) erased from their equipment. I have discovered that I am still alive and well without “Facebook” and would advise everyone to be very wary about open media. It could happen to you !!!
We’ve had our debit card hacked 3 times. We never use the Pin, only run it as a credit. Have never been able to track down HOW it’s happening. One time $1000 was wired to Mexico. We called USAA but had to wait to be reimbursed.
My husband has had his identity stolen 2x’s in the past 2 years. First time, his debit card, second time, was pretty slick, they printed up checls, with “their” identity, my husband’s bank account rounting # and account #
Fortunately I realized what they were up to and went to the bank immediate.y. All old accounts were changed immediately and credit cards were reissued. I thank my bank for their quick and thorough action. My bank also notifies me of any charge over a certain dollar amount